Monday, September 30, 2024
"From 0-5 to OMG!"
Writing Advice in Unexpected Places
I wrote a few posts about finding good lines in unexpected places--meaning B movies.
This post is about finding relevant writing advice in unexpected places. A few weeks ago, I was reading through a list of tips/advice about random topics--I think it was from cracked.com, but I can't find it.
Here's the gist of what I remember:
Don't completely stop a good routine. If you've been working out and want to skip a day, do two sit-ups. If you write everyday and want to skip a day, write two sentences.
I thought this was a great idea. Unfortunately, I haven't acted on it yet.
The following is a comment more than a piece of advice from the series, Wednesday:
"I've always hated the expression 'write what you know'. It's a hall pass for the imagination-impaired."
I have to agree with Wednesday on this. "Write what you know." may be good advice for a new writer, but it's too restricting. Taken literally, I can't write about a man, a mother, a divorcee, an actress, or anyone older than me. Let me use my imagination.
Sunday, September 29, 2024
Baseball and a Birthday
Jeff's birthday was Wednesday. He wasn't feeling well, so we didn't go out for lunch or dinner. Jace and I walked to Blue Cactus Grill and picked up a sandwich for lunch. I had made spaghetti sauce last week so heated that, added ground pork, and served it over angel hair pasta for dinner. I also made a salad and picked up a South African wine. Jeff ended up going to bed early--around 8 PM without dessert. You know Jeff must have been feeling really bad for him to bypass chocolate ganache cake.
The next day we went to Sedona Tap House for lunch. We had unexpectedly frugal glasses of sparkling wine--a $2.special. Beers were half-off and we got a free appetizer. Works for me. Jeff and I had cake after a light dinner.
Last week I read an article Be Worried About the Mets Fan in your Life by Will Leitch. I can relate. I was devastated by the Mets loss to Atlanta on Tuesday 1-5. Then the next two games were rescheduled to a double-header on Monday with the Wild Card Series starting Tuesday. Ugh!
It was hard to have to wait until Friday to see the Mets. Then they lost their two games against Milwaukee. Double ugh. I'm worried. If the Mets don't make it into the playoffs, at some point, I will be able to celebrate their comeback season. But in the near term, it will be a grave disappointment.
Monday, September 23, 2024
Monday Miscellanea
Fall officially started yesterday. It was appropriately chilly in the morning and I appropriately used this Welcome Fall glass.
Saturday, September 21, 2024
LGM!
I was mad last night because we couldn't watch the Mets--they were on Apple TV. I hate that we're already paying for SNY and can't see all the games. Well, the Mets lost 2-12; maybe it wasn't such a bad thing to miss that.
Today, I'm happy to report that the Mets beat the Phillies 6-3, and we got to watch it. At a minimum, the Mets won't lose the four-game series. Let's see them win it tomorrow.
LGM!
Thursday, September 19, 2024
A Thankful Thursday Post
I am thankful for the following:
Jeff saw a new acupuncturist who is part of his neurology group. She ordered X-rays for his back (which he had today) and more physical therapy--schedule to be determined.
Beautiful weather. Jace and I went to three "destination" walks this week (i.e. not around our neighborhood) Taylor Farm, the Norwalk River Valley Trail, and Winslow Park.
Jeff and I celebrated our 36th anniversary.
Even though I didn't feel well yesterday and worried about a colitis setback, I feel good today.
I'm getting excited about our move out of Connecticut. We still have a lot of work to do before that happens, but I feel that we're on our way.
The Mets are playing great baseball. Tonight they beat the Phillies 10-6.They had a 2-run lead at the end of the first. Every time the Phillies scored, the Mets responded. The Mets are currently in the second wild-card position. They have the toughest remaining schedule of all the contenders, but as I said, they're playing great baseball. I believe again.
Tuesday, September 17, 2024
36
Today is Jeff's and my 36th wedding anniversary. We didn't consider going away because we already spent a week in New Jersey and one in Baltimore this summer.
Today, I cared for the NCNC birds, ran some errands and picked up anniversary gifts for Jeff. As of Sunday, I didn't have a clue for his gift. Then it downed on me--photos. Okay, some wives would give their husband boudoir photos, but not me. I gave Jeff Jace photos.
I think this is the best photo I've taken of Jace.
This looks better after I cropped it.
Monday, September 16, 2024
Off to a Stellar Start--Not
On weekends, I often think about the things I will do when the week starts again on Monday. Honestly, a large part of this is procrastination, but there's also a feeling of optimism--next week will be the time I get it together--writing, working out, cleaning--whatever.
Even though I had just told Jace, I have to start getting up earlier, I stayed in bed for an extra half hour this morning. Then I remembered Jeff has an appointment with a new acupuncturist--part of his neurologist's practice. Also, I went into the kitchen and remembered that while I had loaded the dishwasher, I had left pans, the cutting board, and knives to clean. I hate to do the night's dinner dishes the next morning. Oh well. It took me most of the day to catch up Between chores and errands, I still haven't put away all the laundry on the drying rack since Friday. One errand was to take Jace to Taylor Farm; it wasn't necessary, but I felt he deserved it.
Tomorrow is our wedding anniversary. I will care for the birds at New Canaan Nature Center as I usually do on Tuesday, but we won't worry about cleaning and chores tomorrow. I do need to pick up a few things for Jeff's gift, and I'll pick up a dessert to have at home.
As I'm writing this, the Mets have beat the Nationals 2-1 in 10 innings. The Braves are losing badly (0-9) to the Dodgers in the ninth, so the Mets will be in line for the third wild card. I'm glad the Mets have a better start to the week than I did.
Saturday, September 14, 2024
Book 18: Winter Garden by Kristin Hannah
I think I got this book recommendation from Modern Mrs. Darcy. I have a scribbled list of books to read on pages from a old journal. My notes said it was about World War II in Russia.
Well, I had to re-read the cover to remember that after the first 100 or so pages.
In a piece called "In Her Own Words" at the back of the book, Hannah said, "The Russian half of the story came to me as a gift." Also, "The bigger problem was the contemporary story."
I agree. I'll put it bluntly. I didn't give a shit about Meredith or Nina in the contemporary story. Their issues revolved around the men in their lives.
Anya's story was powerful.
Hannah should have written a novella.
Friday, September 13, 2024
Back Home
Wednesday, September 4, 2024
Baltimore Bound
In a few hours, Jeff, Jace, and I are hitting the road to visit some friends in Baltimore. We'll also see my cousin in Annapolis. Looking forward to this trip; it's been in the planning stages for a long time. I can't remember the last time we went away twice in one summer.
Tuesday, September 3, 2024
Rewatching The Little Foxes
One of the fun things about re-watching great movies is noticing new things and appreciating things you've seen before.
The actors who play the Hubbard Brothers--Charles Dingle and Carl Benton Reid are wonderful--it's Reid's film debut. I've mentioned Dan Duryea before--he is memorable as Leo. Teresa Wright is luminous as Alexandra. Who can forget Herbert Marshall as he crawls upstairs to get the heart medicine he needs after his wife Regina (Bette Davis) tells him of her contempt for him and how she wishes for his death?
Patricia Collinge has the best scene in the film as she explains to Alexandra that she doesn't really have headaches, but that she drinks; how everyone knew but her that her husband married her for her family's cotton.
Four paragraphs before I even address Bette's performance. She's brilliant as she maneuvers among her brothers, taunts her husband, realizes she's lost her daughter.
This is a good film with great performances--a classic.